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What is your typical Thanksgiving menu? Do you host? How did you decide on what it would be and does it change from year to year?
Finally, what do those foods symbolize for you and your loved ones?
Finally, what do those foods symbolize for you and your loved ones?
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Re: Thanksgiving Dinner
Thu, November 15, 2007 - 6:25 PMI have had more thanksgiving dinners than I can count, due to divorced parents who lived in my same town, in-laws, grandma wanting her own dinner separate from my parent, and wanting to do my own dinners once I got married. I've had as many as four "thanksgiving dinners" in two weeks' time (a couple of times, twice in one day!).
Most of the family did things fairly traditionally: turkey (and ham, if it's at grandma's, because not everyone might like turkey), gravy, mashed white potatoes, sweet potatoes with brown sugar and orange juice (*no* marshmallows, thank you very much), stuffing, cranberry sauce (from a can) and corn or green beans. Pumpkin and pecan pies are a must.
We never really had much discussion about where to have it because the same people wanted it at their house every year, and insisted on it. We went to my mom's for breakfast some years just to cut down on the turkey overload, plus then she could do dinner with a friend and have us kids out of her hair. Grandma did one thing well, and one thing only: cook. Therefore she needed to have a dinner at her house - which would include my uncle and aunt and cousins. My dad and his wife did dinner at their house so they could include her kids. My in-laws did one big one at their house because they were central socially and geographically for their kids' families and their friends.
When I got married, I decided I wanted the traditional foods, but arranged differently. The first year, we did homemade ravioli with ground turkey in some, cheese in some, and spinach in some (with tomato sauce). We also had pumpkin something with dessert.
The second year, we made turkey and apple sausage (the bread crumbs counted as stuffing), pumpkin soup, cranberry juice, and I forget how we accounted for potatoes.
I wore out on thanksgiving dinners quickly, as we still had as many as three to attend with family. We did think hard about doing turkey fajitas one year, though.
I'm not married anymore, and one of my parents has moved out of state, so I'm down to two dinners, in the same week of course. Dad will have the regular works at his house, cooked by his wife for the most part.
The boyfriend is cooking his own turkey and doing most of the sides. When I go to his house, I'll be making the stuffing this year (Stove Top with chopped dates, craisins and cashews), a dish of cranberry-orange relish, I'll bake some sweet potatoes to serve with butter and brown sugar, and I might make some bread in the bread machine. Friends will be bringing dessert and vegetables and I don't know what else.
My dad's side of the family (him, his wife and my grandmother), they're more interested in keeping the foods traditional and the get-together on the actual holiday. My mom is more "as long as we get together, it's less important when or what we do". My boyfriend is interested in doing things on the actual holiday, but because his family is small, he's open to having friends over for the dinner.
Me, I'm fine having it anywhere near the holiday. I'm with my mom, that it's more important to be together than to worry about the actual date or the specific food items. On the other hand, I do look forward to the particular combination of foods. And I pretty much limit myself to pecan pie only on Thanksgiving and Christmas (otherwise I'd never stop!)
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Re: Thanksgiving Dinner
Sun, November 18, 2007 - 4:21 AMBe thankful for what you have. There are many of us holiday "orphans" who scrounge around for someplace to go. -
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Re: Thanksgiving Dinner
Sun, November 18, 2007 - 6:10 PMBeing a New Englander Turkey Day is turkey, gravy, bread stuffing (cooked in the bird) mashed potatoes, pureed squash, rolls, and something green. It was a shock to move to New Mexico and have dinner with friends who served calibacitas (summer squash with herbs and green chilies), sweet potatoes, and green bean casserole. The year I made it for my NM friends and two Scottish lasses who were visiting we had "everything" because I'd promised to make a "real New England" Thanksgiving dinner but had to add on for the Southerners, Texans, and chiliheads. Thank goodness we had a lot of people! -
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Re: Thanksgiving Dinner
Mon, November 19, 2007 - 3:25 AMI was searching for some material on the history of Thanksgiving and stumbled upon this satirical site, which I found humorous:
www.thanksgivinghistory.net/index.htm
Truly, though, Thanksgiving is my favorite American holiday, despite its ignoble origins. What other holiday is there where your only obligations are to eat and drink as much as possible? At the worst, you may get stuck doing the cooking (like me this year), but that has its rewards, too. -
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Re: Thanksgiving Dinner
Mon, November 19, 2007 - 9:13 AMAlthough this time of year was always the harvest, and wise people are naturally grateful for their bounty and sustanance from the earth/almighty deity of their choice, this is what alot of scholars and historians consider the basis for the modern 'holiday' of Thanksgiving:
THE ORIGINAL DOCUMENT_ 1863>>
Proclamation of Thanksgiving, by Abraham Lincoln.
Washington, D.C.
October 3, 1863
By the President of the United States
A Proclamation.
The Year that is drawing to a close, has been filled with the blessings of fruitful fields and healthful skies. To these bounties, which are so constantly enjoyed that we are prone to forget the source from which they come, others have been added, which are so extraordinary a nature, that they cannot fail to penetrate and soften even the heart which is habitually insensible to the ever watchful providence of Almighty God.
In the midst of a civil war of unequaled magnitude and severity, which has sometimes seemed to foreign States to invite and to provoke the aggression, peace has been preserved with all nations, order has been maintained, the laws have been respected and obeyed, and harmony has prevailed everywhere except in the theater of military conflict; while that theater has been greatly contracted by the advancing armies and navies of the Union.
Needful diversion of wealth and strength from the fields of peaceful industry to the national defense, have not arrested the plough, the shuttle or the ship; the axe has enlarged the borders of our settlements, and the mines, as well of iron and coal as of the precious metals, have yielded even more abundantly than heretofore.
Population has steadily increased, notwithstanding the waste that has been made in the camp, the siege, and the battle-field; and the country, rejoicing in the consciousness of augmented strength and vigor, is permitted to expect continuance of years with large increase of freedom.
No human counsel hath devised nor hath any mortal hand worked out these great things. They are the gracious gifts of the Most High God, who, while dealing with us in anger for our sins, hath nevertheless remembered mercy.
It has seemed to me fit and proper that they should be solemnly, reverently and gratefully acknowledged as with one heart and one voice by the whole American People.
I do therefore invite my fellow citizens in every part of the United States, and also those who are at sea and those who are sojourning in foreign lands, to set apart and observe the last Thursday of November next, as a day of Thanksgiving and Praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the Heavens.
And I recommend to them that while offering up the ascription's justly due to Him for such singular deliverance's and blessings, they do also, with humble penitence for our national perverseness and disobedience, commend to His tender care all those who have become widows, orphans, mourners or sufferers in the lamentable civil strife in which we are unavoidably engaged, and fervently implore the interposition of the Almighty hand to heal the wounds of the nation, and to restore it as soon as may be consistent with the Divine purposes to the full enjoyment of peace, harmony, tranquility, and Union.
In testimony whereof, I have hereunto set my hand and caused the seal of the United States to be affixed.
Done at the City of Washington, this Third day of October, in the year of our Lord one thousand eight hundred and sixty-three, and of the Independence of the United States the Eighty-eighth.
By the President: Abraham Lincoln
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